It's not an insult when it's true. I don't think you've made one comment that actually added something useful. I did my best to reply to what was there, but you didn't give me anything to work with. Your last comment was so unrelated there was no where left to go.
If you have something actually relavent to say you're welcome to say it.
Here's an opportunity to talk about listening, epistemology, and human intercourse:
> It's not an insult when it's true.
It's not slander, but it's certainly an insult. If you tell someone they are fat and ugly, it's an insult regardless of its truth and you shouldn't say it, ever. There's never a good reason for personal insults.
> it's true
> you're welcome to
This assumes your perspective is truth. That is the case for nobody in the world; in fact, I also have a perspective that I'm confident in, as do many others. Your statements also assume that, perhaps as the arbiter of truth, you have some authorization or power to enforce it. Again, that's nobody's business.
We're in a world of peers, generally speaking, and none of us know who is right. We need strategies to navigate that world, not the one where truth is given to you.
> you didn't give me anything to work with
When I feel like you do, it's a signal I need to listen better - the other person probably does have something to say and I'm missing it. It's possible we're talking past each other, but that's never a reason for insults.
(human intercourse)
Note that the signal is that I need to do something, not the other person. That's not because I'm 'wrong' or 'right' - those are mostly unknowable and irrelevant because 1) We're in a world of peers, generally speaking, and none of us know who is right. Also, 2) I'm the only one I can control and am responsible for, and ...
3) Respecting other people is always more important. That's a strategy for, and wisdom in, a world of uncertainty (as described), as opposed to a world of certainty. Also, it's a strategy for social creatures in social groups - it keeps groups strong and functioning. Finally, it's strategy for both loving and respecting yourself - you deserve it. You're better than insults, I'm sure; and I sometimes say the wrong thing, but I'm better than that too.
