I often see people wrap their feedback in a "just thinking out loud" style of speaking, that leaves everyone confused. "Well you're not handling this error here, so maybe it would be good to think about doing that, or maybe we don't need to. Well it's definitely a good idea to think about it" and so on.

It took me years to have the confidence to, after a ramble like that, directly ask what the suggestion was.

There's only so much definitely maybe thinking about possible good ideas I can do.